Monday, May 23, 2011

Law of Success

The 'Law of Success' is advertised as a free download in google but I was excited to find a first edition for $3.00 at a garage sale.
Self help books have been around for years and from my studies I have found they all pretty much say the same thing only a different way. Some say the bible was the first. In the search for self improvement one may be looking for an instruction manual that does not exsist. The knowledge is already in our posession our only failure is due to lack of action and poor decisions.

J.H.Kelly makes a very valid point in his introduction so I will quote.

'A much larger book could upon the suggestions of the author, have been written, and the sayings of noted men could have been given by the page, but such a book is more for interesting reading than for close study. The student is requested to bear this constantly in mind while studying this book.
It will be observed from the very first that the book consists of a statement of facts, and not a statement of what to do.
(now this is the part I like)
A study of facts will enable one of ordinary intelligence to decide upon the course of action.
If a reader decides for himself what he shall do, he is acting upon his own decisions, and will be enabled to intelligently follow out his course of action, but if he is acting upon the suggestions of the author, he is attempting to carry out someone else's plans and not his own. No man ever became truly successful by carrying out another man's ideas.
With the assertion that anyone can succeed in this if he will but try, and that what one has done another can do, the author leaves the student to the work before him.'

Nevada, Mo., Feb 1 1900 J.H.Kelly

In the conclusion he writes:
'Reader, do not delay, but begin at once to demonstrate these teachings.
Do not wait until to-moorrow, but begin to-day. the only time you really have at your disposal is the present moment.'

He talks about the Law of Physics and I agree. Action creates emotion. The foundation for anyones success is when you find that you can rely on yourself. Now go out and sieze this very minute!

Saturday, May 7, 2011

The secret of Money

The Babylonian secret says pay yourself first. Take 10% of your income and save it in your name. The miracle is you will be able to live wonderfully with 90% and this 10% keeps increasing giving you a big leap into the future. I say put away 10% plus one so the 1% can compound. Example: put away $101.00. The $1.00 is the start of the next $100.00.
Now there is a bigger secret. Never take out a loan not even for yourself. You never take out a loan to pay a loan unless you want to go deeper in debt.
Be wise who you give your money to. Whenever someone asks for money find out all the details of why they want the money. If you are not convinced REFUSE money without guilt or ill feeling. If you find their case genuine ask them to come back after a few days or hours. Delay the giving.(Sometimes during the delay they find the money without including you.) Give less than what they asked for and most important ask for a re-payment schedule and follow it up regularly. Remember it is YOUR money and you are not a charity.
If you do decide to give a loan get it in writing, communicate clearly and make sure you both have an understanding about the re-payment of the loan, give it joyfully and your relationship will not suffer.